Passion After Kids

Hey parents- I see you. After working all day/ wrangling tiny dictators/ cooking/ attempting to clean the never ending mess of the house/chasing the dog/ keeping the aforementioned tiny dictators alive- the last thing on your mind is romance. Shoot, chocolate and Netflix sounds like all you can handle at…

Life after summer

Ah Summer. Even though it's so hot you're sweating through your clothes, there is an unmistakable energy in the air. Kids and teachers are out of school, vacations are in full swing, late sunsets mean you're more inspired to actually do things after work, and there are more things to…

Every Marriage is a Mistake

"Every marriage is a mistake. Some people just cope with their mistakes better than others."- Salvador Minuchin You might be reading this and thinking "why in the hell would a relationship therapist post such a depressing quote?" And I'll tell you right now. Because, I read this quote and find…

I call foul!

So lets take a trip back to when you first started dating your partner. Chances are, you thought they were pretty awesome in a million different ways-and they had a cute butt which sealed the deal ;) During this "honeymoon" phase fights were rare and makeups were passionate and wonderful.…

The Happy Meme Cult

The happy meme. You know the one. That one all over your Instagram, Facebook and Pinterest. The one with that perfect picture, the perfect people, the perfect words. The one that throws out a perfectly crafted quote, as if it were a key to unlock the secrets to happiness, fulfillment…

All you need is love…right?

Tonight, I'm writing about a topic that is truly near and dear to my heart. It's love. More specifically the love found in the relationships we choose to have with one another. Spouses, parents, children, friends. This, is why I do what I do. Now I think it would be…

Let’s Talk About Sex!

Now that I’ve got your attention, I really do want to talk about sex. Probably not in the way you anticipated though. The sex I want to talk about can get someone in big trouble, even land them some jail time. No, I’m not travelling down the road of kink…